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Question One

QUESTION 1

People have different attitudes towards their divorce.

Please read all sentences closely and select the one that closely fits your own attitude right now.

I am done with this marriage; it's too late now even if my spouse were to make major changes.

I have mixed feelings about the divorce; sometimes I think it's a good idea and sometimes I'm not sure.

I would consider reconciling if my spouse got serious about making major changes.

I do not want this divorce, and I would work hard to get us back together.

QUESTION 2

When couples are in the divorce process, sometimes they are leaning in different directions about the future of their marriage.

Please select the number below that is closest to your own “leaning” at this moment.

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Definitely preserve the relationship

Not sure

Definitely end the relationship

QUESTION 3

Does your spouse feel the same way as you?
Couples in the divorce process sometimes lean in different directions about the future of their marriage.

What is your best guess for how your spouse is leaning?

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Definitely preserve the relationship

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Definitely end the relationship

QUESTION 4

If a service were recommended to help you consider your options about divorcing or trying to solve the problems in your marriage, how interested would you be in following up on that recommendation?

Yes: Definitely interested

Maybe: I would consider it

No: Not interested

RESULTS

Based on your answers, here is our suggestion for you.

It allows couples to consider three paths:

Path One
Postpone Any Decision

Path Two
Move towards Divorce

Path Three
Work on the Marriage

Discernment Counselling is a form of short-term counselling (1-5 sessions) that requires both spouses to attend together. It is offered free-of-charge at our Strengthening Families Programme@FSCs (FAM@FSCs) and Divorce Support Specialist Agencies (DSSAs) island-wide. Please click here to find more information and to contact one of our agencies to make an appointment.

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